It all starts with the eyes before we speak to a woman or are intoduced to a woman,We visually size her up, assessing what we like and dislike about her.Subconsciously ,whether you know it or not,you are comparing her to yourself. ie:(Her hair is so long and thick,and mine is all thin and kinda short) At that moment you picture yourself having her hair or criticizing her hair.You'll say thing like i bet it's unmanageable,or i bet that's not all her real hair and so on and so forth.
Many woman experience this same uncomfortable feeling when they walk into a room full of people especially a room full of women they are not familiar with.It's like as soon as you walk into a room you can feel all eyes on you staring holes in the back of your neck and you worry about what their saying, if they are talking about your hair make up, outfit. You begin to make yourself paranoid or you build a wall up so you don't show how uncomfortable you feel.Or you might criticize them before you allow the thoughts creep into your head that their talking about you.I can honestly say that would be me. whether it was a classroom,a grocery store even the mall and pool i would talk about them from head to toe to make myself feel better about me.But as i gotten older i realized how childish and foolish i had been to say things about someone i didn't even know. Now i just think to myself i wonder who did her hair.or i would like to try that hair style or i think i could rock the look.
Always stay positive about yourself don't hate just admire and try to accomplish the same for yourself
Stay Blessed and Beautiful Ladies and Gents XO <3
Showing posts with label Females. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Females. Show all posts
Saturday, January 14, 2012
Jealousy in Females
"Look at her breast"
"I know that's a rent-a-car"
"Those are contacts"
"That is not her real hair"
^^^^Those are examples of hater/envious women
There is a common thread among haters.Most often the people who hate on others are intimidated,insecure,and or jealous about a certain characteristic they see in the person or people they are hating on.This characteristic is something that they feel they could never possess or gain.Feeling this way makes the hater feel inadequate.It is easier for these people to criticize others than change themselves.It's like we as women already have this natural reaction to compare ourselves to there women with out even noticing it. I can honestly admit i do it all the time.
Case and Point. I get jealous of my best friend Jae all the time.She has a talent with make up that i could never understand or do it myself.And she is obber friendly to like everyone,Plus her ambition that's one thing i can say urks me sometime. Even though i'm genuinely proud of her and support her and everything she dose I tend to compare her to me. Even though i shouldn't. I'm myself is ambitious but i'm a huge procrastinator and i get bored with thing once they stop becoming a challenge for me. So i switch my ideas a lot. But not Jae she has stuck with her same dream since i met her. And I can say i have to but i kinda threw plan A away and now i'm working on plan C while i wait for the acceptance in plan B. At the end of the day that is my sister and i love her dearly we wouldn't be as close as we are if we didn't fight or envy each other every now and then.
Stay Blessed and Beautiful Ladies and Gents XO <3
"I know that's a rent-a-car"
"Those are contacts"
"That is not her real hair"
^^^^Those are examples of hater/envious women
There is a common thread among haters.Most often the people who hate on others are intimidated,insecure,and or jealous about a certain characteristic they see in the person or people they are hating on.This characteristic is something that they feel they could never possess or gain.Feeling this way makes the hater feel inadequate.It is easier for these people to criticize others than change themselves.It's like we as women already have this natural reaction to compare ourselves to there women with out even noticing it. I can honestly admit i do it all the time.
Case and Point. I get jealous of my best friend Jae all the time.She has a talent with make up that i could never understand or do it myself.And she is obber friendly to like everyone,Plus her ambition that's one thing i can say urks me sometime. Even though i'm genuinely proud of her and support her and everything she dose I tend to compare her to me. Even though i shouldn't. I'm myself is ambitious but i'm a huge procrastinator and i get bored with thing once they stop becoming a challenge for me. So i switch my ideas a lot. But not Jae she has stuck with her same dream since i met her. And I can say i have to but i kinda threw plan A away and now i'm working on plan C while i wait for the acceptance in plan B. At the end of the day that is my sister and i love her dearly we wouldn't be as close as we are if we didn't fight or envy each other every now and then.
Stay Blessed and Beautiful Ladies and Gents XO <3
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