It all starts with the eyes before we speak to a woman or are intoduced to a woman,We visually size her up, assessing what we like and dislike about her.Subconsciously ,whether you know it or not,you are comparing her to yourself. ie:(Her hair is so long and thick,and mine is all thin and kinda short) At that moment you picture yourself having her hair or criticizing her hair.You'll say thing like i bet it's unmanageable,or i bet that's not all her real hair and so on and so forth.
Many woman experience this same uncomfortable feeling when they walk into a room full of people especially a room full of women they are not familiar with.It's like as soon as you walk into a room you can feel all eyes on you staring holes in the back of your neck and you worry about what their saying, if they are talking about your hair make up, outfit. You begin to make yourself paranoid or you build a wall up so you don't show how uncomfortable you feel.Or you might criticize them before you allow the thoughts creep into your head that their talking about you.I can honestly say that would be me. whether it was a classroom,a grocery store even the mall and pool i would talk about them from head to toe to make myself feel better about me.But as i gotten older i realized how childish and foolish i had been to say things about someone i didn't even know. Now i just think to myself i wonder who did her hair.or i would like to try that hair style or i think i could rock the look.
Always stay positive about yourself don't hate just admire and try to accomplish the same for yourself
Stay Blessed and Beautiful Ladies and Gents XO <3
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ReplyDeleteAny girl who has to put another female down, by her visual appearance, probably has self esteem issues. You need to be confident in yourself. Tell yourself everyday, you're beautiful, you're smart, etc..